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.And votes Tory.It's all just manipulative, paternalistic."I glanced nervously at the clock."Um, Shaz, can I ring you back on the mobile?""What! In case he rings you? No!" she exploded.Just then the mobile actually started ringing."Shaz, I'm going to have to go.I'll call you later." Pressed OK eagerly on the mobile.Was Jude."Oh, oh I feel so hungover.I think I'm going to throw up." She started launching into great long story about party at the Met Bar but had to stop her as really felt whole oriental youth issue was more pressing.Really felt was right about this.Was not being selfish."Oh God, Bridge," said Jude when I'd finished."You poor thing.I think you've handled it really, really well.I really do.You've really come on."Felt huge glow of pride, followed by puzzlement."What did I do?" I said, looking round the room alternating between self-satisfied smiling and confused blinking."You've done exactly what it says in Women Who Love Too Much.You've done nothing.Just detached.We cannot solve their problems for them.We simply detach.""Right, right," I said, nodding earnestly."We don't wish them ill.We don't wish them well.We do not call them.We do not see them.We simply detach.Housekeeper's son my arse.If he's got a housekeeper how come he's always round your place getting you to wash up?""But what if it was the housekeeper's son?""Now, Bridget," said Jude sternly, "this is what's called Denial."11.15 a.m.Have arranged to meet Jude and Shazzer in 192 for lunch.Right.Am not going to be in Denial.11.16 a.m.Yes.Am completely detached.You see!11.18 a.m.Cannot believe he still hasn't fucking, fucking, fucking well rung.Hate passive-aggressive behaviour of telephone in modern dating world, using non-communication as means of communication.Is terrible, terrible: with simple ring or non-ring meaning difference between love and friendliness and happiness and being cast out into ruthless dating trench war again, exactly the same but feeling even more of a fuck up than last time.Noon.Could not believe it.Phone actually started ringing while I was staring at it, as if I had made it ring through thought-vibe energy and this time it was Mark."How are you?" he said wearily."I'm fine," I said, trying to be detached."Shall I pick you up and we'll go for lunch and talk?""Um, I'm having lunch with the girls," I said really quite detachedly indeed."Oh God.""What?""Bridget.Do you have any idea what sort of night I've had? I had this boy trying to strangle his mother in the kitchen, the police and ambulance round, tranquillizer darts, drives to the hospital, hysterical Filipinos all over the house.I mean I'm really, really sorry you had to go through all that, but so did I and it was hardly my fault.""Why didn't you call before?""Because every time I got a second to call, either on the phone or the mobile, you were bloody well engaged!" Hmmm.Detachment did not go particularly well.He really has had an awful time.Have arranged to meet him for dinner and he says he's going to sleep this afternoon.Alone, I do so deeply and sincerely hope.Sunday 2 February9st 2 (excellent: am turning into Oriental Boy), cigarettes 3 (v.g.), calories 2,100 (v.modest), boyfriends 1 again (hurrah!), self-help books counted out loud in dismissive incredulous manner by newly re-instated boyfriend 37 (only sensible in this day and age).10 p.m.In flat.Everything is good again.Dinner was a bit awkward to start with but got better when decided I did believe him about story, especially as he said I should come and see the housekeeper today.But then, when we were having our chocolate mousses, he said, "Bridge? Last night even before this happened I'd started to feel as though things weren't right."Felt cold clunk of dread in stomach.Which was ironic really considering had been thinking things weren't right myself.But really, it is all very well you yourself thinking things aren't right in a relationship, but if the other person starts doing it is like someone else criticizing your mother.Also it starts you thinking you are about to be chucked, which, apart from pain, loss, heartbreak etc.is very humiliating."Bridge.Are you in a hypnotic state?""No.Why did you think things weren't right?" I whispered."Well, every time I tried to touch you, you shrank away as if I were some elderly lech."Huge sense of relief.Explained to him about the scary pants at which he started really laughing.Ordered some dessert wine, both got a bit squiffy and ended up going back to my flat and having fantastic shag.This morning, when we were lying around reading the papers in front of the fire, started wondering whether should bring up the Rebecca business, and why he always stays at my house.But then Jude said I shouldn't because jealousy is v.unattractive trait to opposite sex."Bridget," said Mark, "you seem to have gone into a trance.I was asking what was the meaning of the new shelving system.Are you meditating? Or is the shelf support system in some way Buddhist?""It's because of the electric wire," I said vaguely."What are all these books?" he said, getting up and looking at them."How to Date Young Women: A Guide For Men Over Thirty-Five? If the Buddha Dated? Going For It by Victor Kyam?""They're my self-help books!" I said protectively."What Men Want? Beyond Co-dependency With a Man Who Can't Commit? How to Love Your Separated Man Without Losing Your Mind? You do realize you're building up the largest body of theoretical knowledge about the behaviour of the opposite sex in the known universe.I'm starting to feel like a laboratory animal!""Um.”He was grinning at me."Are you supposed to read them in pairs?" he said, pulling a book off the shelves."Cover yourself both ways? Happy to Be Single with How to Find Your Perfect Partner in Thirty Days? Buddhism Made Simple with Going For It by Victor Kyam?""No," I said indignantly."You read them individually.""Why on earth do you buy this stuff?""Well, actually I have a theory about this," I began excitedly (because actually I do have a theory about it)."If you consider other world religions such as.""Other world religions? Other than what?"Grrr.Sometimes wish Mark was not so bloody legally trained."Other than self-help books.""Yes, I thought you might be about to say that.Bridget, self-help books are not a religion.""But they are! They are a new form of religion.It's almost as if human beings are like streams of water so when an obstacle is put in their way, they bubble up and surge around it to find another path
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